Kwa kweli waandishi wa vitabu katika Bibilia hawakukosea waliposema kuwa watoto wana wajibu wa kuwaheshimu wazazi wao. Na kwa kisa kisicho cha kawaida, msichana wa miaka 27 amejipata katika njia panda baada ya kulazimishwa na mamake mzazi kuolewa na mzee wa miaka 43 na kutalakiana na yule anayempenda kibinafsi.
Msichana mmoja wa miaka,27, alifungua roho na kutaka apewe ushauri kwa maana mama yake anamlazimisha kuolewa na mwanaume wa miaka,43.
Alieleza jinsi huyo mwanaume hana hisia za kimapenzi kwa mwili wake, licha ya hayo mama yake amesisitiza kuwa amuoe mwanaume huyo na ampe talaka 'mume wake halisi' na ambaye mamake mzazi hataki aolewe naye.
“I broke up with my ex 3 years ago so I can focus on myself (the relationship drained my soul), I’m 27 now and my parents won’t lemme hear word about marriage my mum doesn’t say one thing without “I pray you marry soon oo” now in my mums quest to get me a husband by fire by thunder one of the reasons is my younger sis is married with kids. she (mum) introduced me to this Family friends son inlaw but the thing is I don’t love him at all he’s 43 years never been married in Africa said he was in a contract marriage with a white woman and he’s divorced after getting his papers. From what I’ve heard he’s financially stable, He calls me everyday video call, WhatsApp normal call etc he calls morning afternoon night will be talking shit (making me fake laugh and telling him he’s funny) and will always asking me annoying question like “Are you dying for me” can you imagine?
Alieleza zaidi na kusema,
"I TRIED TO TELL MY MUM I’M NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN WITH THIS OLD GUY WITH HIS OLD SCHOOL WAY OF SHOWING LOVE SHE SAID I’M BEING MANIPULATED FROM THE VILLAGE AND SPIRIT HUSBAND IS DISTURBING ME. I’M TORN BETWEEN FOLLOWING MY HEART AND PLEASING MY PARENTS MY DAD HAS HBP AND MUM SAID MY INABILITY TO BRING A MAN HOME IS PART OF THE PROBLEM AND THAT HE’S ALWAYS WORRIED. PLS I NEED ADVICE, I’M NOT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP CAUSE I WANT TO TRULY LOVE SOMEBODY AND BE LOVED IN RETURN. I DON’T WANT TO MARRY SOMEONE I WILL CHEAT ON CAUSE LAST LAST THAT’S WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF THEY MAKE ME MARRY HIM.”