But according to one lady named Emily, her mpango wa kando got pretty attached to her thrills and could not stomach being dumped.
Speaking to Massawe Japanni, Emily said she noticed the mpango being too clingy and needy compared to her husband and told him she was thinking of ending the affair.
The man never took it lightly and when Emily started ignoring his calls, he made his way to her work place and pounced on her beating her up mercilessly.
Irked by his actions she planned to get one over him and this she did after the mpango wa kando invited her over for a chill out.
She tried to talk herself out of the relationship but he would not take no for an answer and the two ended up exchanging blows before breaking up.
Read her narration below.
Mimi nilikuwa na mpango wa kando na nikaona anakuja sana hata kuliko mzee wangu, na nikataka kumtoka. Nikajaribu mbinu zote kumtoka ikakataa.Sasa siku ingine sikushika simu zake zote, wacha anikute job si aliniona war. Ushawahi ona mtu anapigwa na mpango aki ya mungu? Nilionwa war aki ya mungu.
Alinipiga kwa sababu nilitaka kumwacha sasa nami nikaamua dawa ya moto ni moto, akaniita mahali na nikaenda.
Nikamwambia mimi vile nilikwambia ni ivo, nikaona anataka kuleta fujo tulionana war sasa ni mtu na mwingine. Sasa ni kupigana, moto juu ya mwingine mpaka ikaisha ivo.
Unajua huwezi ambia bwana shida ni gani unamdanganya kuwa unaskia mwili ni mchovu, halafu anajua mimi ni mchokozi.