Namtafutia mume wangu mhubiri mrembo kumtega ili anipe zawadi.

Dunia imejaa vijimambo na sarakasi zinazowaacha wengi vinywa wazi.

Kila mwanamke hupigania ndoa yake ili isivunjike na hata kupenda mumewe asiwe na mpenzi mwingine.

Kati ya watoto wanne tulionao na mume wangu,wawili ni wa babamkwe,Asema Mwanamke

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Hii ni baada ya mwanamke mmoja kufichua kuwa anataka mume wake ambaye ni muhubiri aende nje ya ndoa.

Alifichua haya baada ya kusema katika mtandao wa kijamii sababu ya kufanya hivyo, lengo likiwa kumwekea mumewe mtego ili amfumanie na kisha kumpa masharti ndiposa asimseme kwa waumini wa kanisa lake. Alisema anataka gari na zawadi zingine za thamani.

 

Mama yangu anafikiria nina mume wa kiroho-Mwanamke Asimulia

“THE ONLY TIME I GET ATTENTION FROM MY HUSBAND IS ONLY WHEN HE CHEATS ON ME, HE WILL SHOWER ME WITH GIFTS AND CHANGE MY CAR. THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR 6 YEARS NOW AND AM SO USE TO HIM CHEATING ON ME NOW BECAUSE I GET ALL I NEED. I EVEN USE TO SET HIM UP WITH GIRLS WHEN HE IS TOO BUSY TO CHEAT,I PLANT GIRLS TO GO AROUND HIM AND MAKE SURE THEY GET HIM TO BED AND LEAVE EVIDENCE FOR ME TO CATCH HIM SO HE CAN BUY MY GIFTS.” Alisimulia.

Aliendelea kusema,

Nilikuwa msagaji nikiwa katika shule ya rehab kwa sababu ya kutumia dawa za kulevya-mwanamke Asimulia

“BUT MY PROBLEM NOW IS THAT RECENTLY HE SAID GOD ARRESTED HIM AND HE WANTS TO BECOME A PASTOR,BUT AM NOT HAPPY BECAUSE HE HAS BECOME SO STINGY WITH GIVING SO I JUST NEED HIM TO CHEAT.I HAVE TRIED USING GIRLS AS USUAL BUT HE WILL NOT FALL AGAIN,AM SO MISERABLE MY CAR IS ALREADY OLD AND I NEED TO TRAVEL OUT BUT ALL I KEEP HEARING IS BIBLE BIBLE BIBLE .PLS HOW DO I GET THIS MAN TO GO BACK TO HIS OLD WAYS, I LOVE HIM AS A CHEAT. AM USED TO HIM CHEATING I NEED SUGGESTIONS. PLEASE DON’T PREACH TO ME ABOUT FIDELITY JUST SUGGEST TO ME. THANKS.” Alieleza.

MHARIRI: DAVIS OJIAMBO

Mume wangu amewapachika wanawake wengi mimba na kuwaacha-mwanamke Asimulia

Nyakati za sasa watu wengi hawatiliii maanani ndoa na tamaduni kama ilivyokuwa enzi za zamani. Nyakati hizo noa ziliheshimiwa sana.

Baaddhi ya watu wanadharau wakwe zao lakini wakati ule heshima iliddumu katika ndoa na hata wazazi walikiwa wanawapa wana wao heshima.

Mwanamke mmoja alisimulia jinsi mume wake amewapachika wanawake tofauti mimba na kisha kuwatoroka.

“Najua mume wangu amewapachika wanawake mimba na kiwaacha walee watoto wao wenyewe. Hivi majuzi alipachika mama mwingine mimba baada ya mume wake kufariki.

Alimuachia mtoto alee, kitu ambacho kimenishtua ni kuwa alimpachika msichana wa wa ukoo wake mimba.” Alisimulia.

Si hayo tu alizidi kueleza jinsi mume wake ameacha majukumu yake na kutoroka nyumbani.

“Tumekaa na mume wangu kwa miaka kumi, tumebarikiwa watoto wanne lakini aliniachia majukumu yote.

Hivi  majuzi msichana wa ukoo wake alinifichulia jinsi alimpachika mimba nikiwa kazini usiku.

Aliniambia alikuja akiwa amelewa na kisha kumlazimisha msichana huyo kupekejeng, Della alikuwa na miaka kumi na saba alipofanya kitendo hicho

Mimi sikujua lakini hata mtoto wa msichana huyo anamfanana mume wangu kabisa kwa hivyo siwezi kataa madai hayo

Mbali na hayo najua wanawake wengi ambao amewapachika mimba, Della alipompigia simu ili awajibikie majukumu yake alikata simu na kumwambia kuwa huyo mtoto si wake.

Licha ya kufanya vitendo hivyo vyote alioa ibi wa pili lakini inaonekana hakumtosheleza.” Alisema.

Mwanamume huyo ni dereva wa magari, lakini ni nini kinamkuma mwanamume huyo kufanya kitendo kama hicho?

Na ni watoto wangapi wa shule ambao amewapachika mimba na kukimbia majukumu yake bila mke wake kujua

Kwa hakika anapaswa kuitwa ‘father Abraham’ ni hatua ipi ambayo wanawake hao wamechukua au wamekaa tu bila la kufanya na kumshtaki mwanamume huyo.

Nilishiriki ngono na kakake mume wangu usiku wa kuamkia harusi yetu

Mama mmoja mwenye watoto wawili amewaacha wamaume wengi wakiwalaani wanawake baada ya kukiri kushiriki mapenzi na shemejiye siku yao ya harusi.

Alifichua kwamba yeye hutembea nje ya ndoa na amegundua kwamba mume wake pia ana uhusiano nje ya ndoa. Alieleza jinsi alishiriki ngono na ndugu wa mumewe usiku kabla ya harusi yao siku iliofuata.

Ni jambo ambalo liliibua mdahalo mkubwa katika mitandao ya kijamii. Je jamii imepagawa na pepo yupi?

Huu hapa usimulizi wake,

Woman

“NILIGUNDUA KWAMBA BWANANGU ALIKUWA NA UHUSIANO NJE YA NDOA. WANAUME NI KASHFA! LAKINI HAJUI KWAMBA MIMI NI MWANAGENZI KATIKA UHANYAJI.  HAJUI KWAMBA WATOTO WETU WAWILI SI WAKE. HATA NILILALA NA KAKAKE USIKU WA KUAMKIA HARUSI YETU. HATA YULE ALISIMAMIA HARUSI YETU ALIONJA . HUYU JAMAA HAJUI LOLOTE. SIO MIMI ATAHUJUMU. ANA MPANGO WA KANDO. ANAJUA KWAMBA NIMESOMA JUMBE ZAKE NA NAFAHAMU KILA KITU. KILA KITU ANAFIKIRIA KUFANYA NIMEFANYA MARA MBILI. ATALEA WATOTO WANGU MPAKA SIKU ATAKUFA. WAKIWA WAKUBWA NITAWAPELEKA KWA BABA YAO WA UKWELI.” Alisimulia mama huyo wa watoto watatu.

Haya hapa ni maoni ya watu,

baff_ups Lord help us men from Jezebels like this🙏🏽

bezee4u So you’re bitter now that your husband is doing to you what you did to him.

cynthia_valex All the husband’s with 2 kids will not sleep today

glory0z And this woman thinks she will make it heaven? 🙄

esejules After God fear women!

everywomannaija If you have a good wife, please treat her well o. There are lots of demons in women clothing these days.

Mke wangu amekuwa akipekejeng na dereva wangu-Mwanaume asimulia

Ni mambo mengi ambayo wanandoa wengi hupitia katika ndoa zao, sanasana mpango wa kando ukiwa kipaumbele katika kuvunjika kwa ndoa nyingi humu nchini.

Kupitia mtandao wa kijamii mwanaume mmoja alifichua jinsi alivyo mshuku mkewe huwa anapekejeng na dereva wake na akaweka  kamera za siri ili apate ushahidi.

Alikuwa na haya ya kueleza;

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“I HAD BEEN SUSPECTING SHE WAS CHEATING WITH MY DRIVER SO I MOUNTED A CAMERA IN MY SERVANT QUARTERS BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE THEY USED TO MEET.

THE CAMERA CAPTURED ALL THE DIRTY THINGS THEY DID.SHE WAS GIVING ANOTHER HEAD.

A COMMON DRIVER A HEAD YET  SHE WILL NEVER DO WITH ME . I HATE THAT WOMAN .I WANT TO HURT HER SO BAD THE WAY SHE HURT ME.” Aliandika Ken.

Hakufua dafu mbali aliongeza na kusema;

“AND WHEN I SHOWED HER THE VIDEO AND EXPECTED AN APOLOGY SHE INSULTED ME AND CALLED ME A SMALL DI*K AND TOLD ME SHE WANTS A DIVORCE.

I FELT HUMILIATED SO I SACKED MY DRIVER BUT I DON’T WANT TO DIVORCE HER TILL I EXPOSE HER BODY ALL OVER THE INTERNET.” Aliongeza.

Baada ya kufichua siri wengi walichangia katika mada hiyo na kufichua siri zao pia huku mmoja wao aliyefahamika kama Rachael akiandika,

“MY HUSBAND AND HIS FRIEND CAME UP WITH A PLAN TO CATCH HIS FRIEND’S WIFE CHEATING.

MY HUSBAND SLEPT WITH HIS FRIENDS WIFE AND FRIEND ‘CAUGHT’ THEM. SHE GOT PREGNANT AND DURING THE DIVORCE FOUND OUT THE BABY WAS MY HUSBAND’S.

FOUND THIS OUT AFTER 7 YEARS AND 3 KIDS.” Alieleza.

Stacy naye alifichua na kusema vile mumewe amekuwa akishiriki ngono na rafafiki yake huu hapa ufichuzi wake;

“HE HAD HAD A 4-YEAR S#XUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS BEST FEMALE FRIEND, THAT HE SWORE UP AND DOWN HE’D NEVER DATED. 

ALSO THAT HE HAD SE3UALLY ABUSED HIS SISTER WHEN HE WAS 12 AND SHE WAS 11.

I PICKED A WINNER, RIGHT? HE NEVER TOLD ME ABOUT THESE THINGS. I FOUND EVIDENCE OF THING 1 AND THE SISTER TOLD ME ABOUT THING 2.WE ARE DIVORCED.”Aliandika.

Ajabu;Nina mume lakini nampenda mume mwingine ambaye ana mke

Ndoa na kuchumbiana kwa wakati huu sio kama ndoa za zamani zilizopewa heshima na hata kufuata utamaduni wa jamii yao.

Mwananmke mmoja aliandikia mshauri mmoja shida yake, alisema kuwa ana mume lakini hana mapenzi yake bali anampenda mwanaume mwingine cha kushangaza nikuwa mwanaume huyo ana familia yake.

Alikiri na kusema;

“Ninampenda mume wa mtu, na kila siku tunazidi kujuana zaidi na zaidi, sisi wote tuna familia zetu lakini kila siku lazima tukutane tupeane busu lakini hatujawahi shiriki ngoni nitafanya nini?” Alieleza.

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Haya ndio majibu ambayo mshauri huyo alimpa baada ya kuchukizwa na jambo hilo.

Hmm unapaswa kufanya nini? nmepatwa na mshtuko mkubwa kwa sababu tayari mshaanza mahusiano yenu, na kisha wahitaji ushauri, kwa hakika hautaji ushauri kutoka kwangu kwa maana unataka nikuunge mkono katika uhusiano wenu.

Unamtaka mtu akwambie kitendo ambacho unafanya ni sawa, bali si sawa unafanya ili kuumiza hisia za watu wengine, nenda ukatafute mwingine kwa sababu si mimi.

 

Baadaye utavuna kile ulichopanda katika uhusiano wenu, endapo familia zenu zitajuwa mnacho endeleza kinyume chao.

Kabla ya kuendelea na uhusiano wenu, fikiria hatari ambayo mnajieka nyinyi wenyewe, na pia unapaswa kufikiria jinsi ya kumwambia mume wako ili utoke katika ndoa.

Hata nasikia msisimko ukipanda kutoka miguuni hadi kichwani kwa sabau ya kitendo hicho.

Fikiria kuwa nyinyi mnakimbia katika majukumu ya familia zenu, kwa hivyo wachana na uhusiano huo kama hutaki matokeo yake yahadhiri familia zenu.

Je uko tayari kuacha familia yako kwa sababu ya upendo wa mtu mwingine au familia yako ,una hakika iko sawa au ina msukosuko wowote?

 

Je sababu ni gani?Bibi aruhusu mpango wa kando kuwa kati ya ndoa yake na mume wake

Ninaamini kuwa sote tunakubaliana na maneno wanawake husema kuwa hawawezi kubali mume wao awe na wasichana wengine.

Hata hivyo nilishangazwa kujua kuwa wako wanawake ambao hawana tatizo na mume wao kuwa na wanawake wengine wakidai kuwa endapo mume wake ana mawazo mengi,huyu mpango wa kando anaweza kusaidia kusuluhisha mambo kwenye boma ile.

Siku za mwisho ama?Wanawake wajivunia kushiriki ngono na waume wasio wao

Amini usiamini mwanamke mmoja alifunguka wazi kwenye vyombo vya habari na kusema kuwa,uhusiano kati yake,mume wake na mpango wa kando uko wazi na hana tatizo lolote na maisha haya.

Aidha,mpango wa kando alisema pia,kila mara mume wa mke huyu wana tatizo,mke huyu humpigia simu na kumwomba mwanamke huyu amsaidie kusulihisha tatizo lao.

”Nimekuwa mpango wa kando kwa miaka nne sasa na wakati wapenzi hawa wako na matatizo,mimi hupigiwa simu na bibi ya huyu bwana na ninaingilia kati na kusaidia kusuluhisha tatizo hili.”

Vilevile,huyu mpango wa kando alisema kuwa,mara kwa mara huwa anaenda kuwachukua watoto wa mama huyu kama mama yao hayuko.

Wanaume wa Lamu wahimizwa kuendelea kuzaa na wake zao

Aisee!Uhusiano wa wanawake hawa na mume wao ulinifurahisha kwani wao huishi pamoja kama familia na hakuna siku ambayo wao huwa na matatizo kwani bibi huyu anajua mpango wa kando wa mume wake ni nani.

Mbali an hayo,mke huyu alisema, kuwa  na wapenzi wawili si tatizo mradi tu wote wanajuana.

”Kuwa na wapenzi wawili si shida kwangu bora tu tunajuana na hakuna mwenye anasema uongo.”Bibi alisema.

Je?Wewe unaweza ishi katika uhusiano huu?

Sikumdhuru mpenzi wangu licha ya kumfumania na mpango wa kando – Derrick Mbugua

Derrick Mbugua ndiye aliyekuwa mgeni wetu siku ya Jumatatu katika kitengo cha Ilikuaje naye Massawe Japanni.

Mbugua aligonga vichwa vya habari hapo nyuma alipo rekodi mazungumzo yake na mpenziwe ambaye alimfumania akila uroda na jamaa fulani.

Wawili wao walikuwa kwa uhusiano wa miaka mitatu unusu na wamejaliwa mtoto mmoja.

Ilikuaje: Mamangu alinipata akiwa mchanga – Moji short baba

Jamaa huyo anasimulia kuwa asubuhi moja alienda mpaka alipokuwa anaisha mpenziwe na alipobisha lango kuu hamna aliyemfungulia, huku ikiwa mida ya saa tisa asubuhi.

Ilimbidi akae pale nje hadi saa kumi na mbili akimsubiri mpenziwe na alipomuona alijijazia kuwa alikuwa kwa mpango wa kando. Anasema kuwa alipomkabili mpenziwe alikubali makosa yake na kusimulia kilichotokea.

Mda huu wote, Mbugua alikiwa anarekodi mazungumzo yao yote na mpenziwe hakuwa na habari.

 

Wakati nilimuona anaingia na ile kutembea nilijua mahali ametoka na nilipomuuliza alisema nimetoka mahali fulani kwa mtu anaitwa Chris anayeuza nguo Gikomba, ni mtu walipatana jioni akampa nambari yake. Alisimulia Mbugua.

Ilikuaje: Fatuma Gedi afunguka kuhusu kanda ya ngono aliyosingiziwa

Aliendelea,

Kupigia Chris alikuwa na wingi wa upole na akakiri kuwa hakujua alichokuwa anafanya. Kumuuliza mpenzi wangu anachotaka hakuwa na maneno ya kusema kwani alikuwa ameshtuka sana.

Mbugua anasema kuwa aliamua amsamehe mpenziwe badala ya kufanya jambo ambalo angejutia maishani.

Sababu kubwa ilifanya nimsamehe niliangalia tulipotoka, Facebook wasee wanasema nipate Chris nimmalize, marafiki wanasema tuungane tukamvamie. Lakini nikasema haifai.

Nilijaribu kumpiga nikasema hapana na nikaamua ku rekodi nikachapisha mtandaoni ili nione kama kuna mwenye amepitia hayo.

 

 

 

Toboa siri: Bibi anadhani nilifariki ila nimekuwa kwa mpango wa kando

Kila siku ya wiki kuna kitengo cha ‘Toboa siri’ ambacho huletwa kwako na watangazaji hodari, Mbusii na Lion katika shoo kali ya Mbusii na Lion teketeke.

Katika kitengo hiki, waskizaji hupata fursa murwa ya kufungua roho na kusema kile ambacho wamekuwa wakibeba moyoni. Hii ni kuwasaidia kuomba msamaha na pia kuwasamehe waliowakosea.

Basi kuna jamaa ambaye alifichua kuwa familia yake inaamini kuwa alifariki na akazikwa, baada ya ajali ya ndege ya Ethiopian Airlines.

Kulingana naye, mkewe alijua kuwa alisafiri hadi Ethiopia kikazi na alikuwa arudi tarehe kumi mwezi wa tatu, siku ambayo ndege hiyo ilianguka na kuua kila mmoja aliyekuwa ndani.

Toboa siri: Mimi hulala na mgomba ili nisipate ukimwi

Cha kushangaza ni kuwa jamaa huyo baba wa watoto wawili, alimdanganya mkewe kuwa bado yuko Ethiopia ilhali alikuwa Nairobi kwa mpango wa kando.

Akiwa na mwanadada huyo, ndipo alipokea habari kuwa kumetokea ajali mbaya ya ndege, ndege ambayo mkewe alikuwa amengoja imrudishe mumewe nyumbani.

Hapo ilibidi familia yake ifanye shughuli za matanga na kuuzika mgomba wa ndizi kwani mwili wake haukupatikana. Hiyo ni kulingana na mila na desturi zao.

Sasa hajui la kufanya kwani ana huzuni na pia anataka kuirudia familia yake.

Toboa Siri: Nilikuwa napepeta mke wa rafiki ya babangu

Soma usimulizi wake.

Nafanya kazi ya kuweka CCTV town na kuna hii tender ilitoka ya kwenda kazi Ethiopia.

Kazi ilipoisha siku yenye tulitoka Ethiopia nilimdanganya bibi yangu kazi haijaisha ila niko na mpango wa kando huku Nairobi.

Shida nilimwambia kuwa nitarudi tarehe kumi mwezi wa tatu na nikiwa kwa yule msichana tukaona ile ndege ilikuwa inatoka Ethiopia imeanguka na watu wote wamefariki. Hapo walijua kuwa nilikuwa kwa ile ndege na nilifariki.

Hapo walishiriki mambo ya matanga na wakaenda nyumbani na kuzika mgomba wa ndizi kama mwili haujapatikana.

 

Shida iko nataka kurudi nyumbani kwani baada ya kutoka kwa mpango wa kando nilikodisha nyumba na nikabadilisha nambari yangu. Mahali siko sina amani kwani mimi hutokwa na machozi nikikumbuka.

PATANISHO: Mke wangu hunidanganya kuwa mpango wa kando ni cousin yake

Baba Daisy, 31, aliomba apatanishwe na mkewe bi Eunice, 28, ambaye walikosana na akambebea kila kitu kwa nyumba na kuondoka. Anadai kuwa kila anapompigia mkewe simu yeye hujibu lakini hazungumzi na sasa hajui la kufanya.

Patanisho: Jombi aapa kutopiga bibi yake

Nimekaa na my wife for four years na kuna mtu alikuwa anampigia simu na kumtumia ujumbe usiku, na nikaanza kumuuliza huyo ni nani. Kila wakati alikuwa anajibu kuwa ni cousin yake na siku moja tulikosana hadi akaangusha simu yangu sakafuni.

“Siku moja nilitoka kazini na nikapata ameondoka tayari bila kunieleza sababu yoyote.” Alisema.

Wawili hao wana watoto wawili na wakekuwa kwa ndoa ya miaka minne.

Aliongeza kuwa yeye huskia wakizungumza na kila wakati huwa akimjulia hali usiku sana.

PATANISHO: Ukibadilika nitajua tu kwani CCTV Ni mob

“Ule staki mambo yake staki mambo yake amenichosha sana!” Alisema bi Eunice kabla ya kusitisha mawasiliano kati yetu.

Kulingana na Baba Daisy, wawili hao walioana kirasmi na tayari wazazi wa familia hizo mbili wamekutana. Isitoshe alipata habari kuwa mkewe huwa havumilii nyumbani na kuwa huondoka na kuwacha watoto pekee yao.

“Nishawahi zungumza na yule jamaa na akazima ile laini na kubadilisha laini nyingine. Kumpigia na laini nyingine ili nimuulize mbona hajawahi kuja nyumbani tujuane huwa hazungumzi.” Aliongeza Baba Daisy.

PATANISHO: Sina wanawake wengine hao ni ma customers!

 

‘Mpango wa kando aliniona war after kumwacha!’ City woman narrates

We all know many married men and women seek mpango wa kando services just for a short term thrill or rather use them as a distraction.

But according to one lady named Emily, her mpango wa kando got pretty attached to her thrills and could not stomach being dumped.

Sababu Massawe Japanni hatokuwa hewani kwa mda

Speaking to Massawe Japanni, Emily said she noticed the mpango being too clingy and needy compared to her husband and told him she was thinking of ending the affair.

The man never took it lightly and when Emily started ignoring his calls, he made his way to her work place and pounced on her beating her up mercilessly.

Irked by his actions she planned to get one over him and this she did after the mpango wa kando invited her over for a chill out.

She tried to talk herself out of the relationship but he would not take no for an answer and the two ended up exchanging blows before breaking up.

Read her narration below.

‘Safiri salama dadangu’ Massawe Japanni mourns her best friend

 

Mimi nilikuwa na mpango wa kando na nikaona anakuja sana hata kuliko mzee wangu, na nikataka kumtoka. Nikajaribu mbinu zote kumtoka ikakataa.

Sasa siku ingine sikushika simu zake zote, wacha anikute job si aliniona war. Ushawahi ona mtu anapigwa na mpango aki ya mungu? Nilionwa war aki ya mungu.

Alinipiga kwa sababu nilitaka kumwacha sasa nami nikaamua dawa ya moto ni moto, akaniita mahali na nikaenda.

Nikamwambia mimi vile nilikwambia ni ivo, nikaona anataka kuleta fujo tulionana war sasa ni mtu na mwingine. Sasa ni kupigana, moto juu ya mwingine mpaka ikaisha ivo.

Unajua huwezi ambia bwana shida ni gani unamdanganya kuwa unaskia mwili ni mchovu, halafu anajua mimi ni mchokozi.