Well, here are the characteristics of a girlfriend or wife who doesn’t care about your future!
1. You send her 250 airtime bado anatuma please call me
My brother if she is this type then you’re not her number one priority. Why send her airtime than she calls other men who don’t even give her a single cent? She is just using you.
2. She asks for 1500 for her hair, you give her 2k bado anaitisha fare
Are you insane? Some will even go to that local salon get their hair done for as low as 500/- use matatus and spend the balance to buy guarana.
3. You send her 2k via Mpesa bado anaitisha ya kutoa.
She doesn’t appreciate the little things you do for her. Dump her bro. She is not wife material.
4. You have 1k in your wallet and the fare for two people is 100 and she has 200 Bob in her purse and she can’t save the matatu conductor the hustle of looking for change by paying.
Clearly, your wife’s money is not yours but yours is for both of you.
5. You take her out for lunch, you spent 2k for lunch bado anaitisha taxi
Some women want to live large yet they are very poor. Why ask for a taxi yet you commute from place to place using matatus? She asks for a taxi so that she can document the whole journey on Instagram and Snapchat. Dear men, if your wife or girlfriend demands alot please allow her to leave. Why die of stress?
6. You take her for shopping, you walk along 4 aisles and you are done with your shopping, she traverses the whole super market for her shopping.
If she does this she is nothing but an attention seeker. They will always take photos in every corner of the store/supermarket just to show the whole world that she went shopping. Do you want to settle down with a socialite? Clearly NOT!
7. You promise her 2k for her hair and she creates an album of all the promises you’ve made complete with a hit single reminding you of her hair money. Some become alarms.
8. She wants pizza every weekend which cost 1500 yet a bag of cement cost 750. Hizo ni bags mbili za foundation ya nyumba anararua per week. At the end of the month ameangusha foundation ya nyumba by 8 bags of cement.