‘I found my husband, his cousin and a lady in the bathroom showering,’ – Annitah Raey narrates

‘Sema na Raey’ host, Annitah Raey was in an abusive marriage at the age of 19.
The presenter and her mother did not see eye to eye, so after she completed Form 4 she opted to get married instead of going back home, Annitah told Radiojambo.co.ke.
“I finished school in November and got married in December to a guy I thought would be the best husband ever. He was 10 years older and, as I was young, I hoped marriage would be a bed of roses.”
Five months later, Annitah came home one evening and found another woman’s shoes at the doorstep.
“I got in the house, met my husband, his cousin and a lady in the bathroom showering. Of course being the woman of that house I decided to ask who the woman was, but he slapped me and that was the turning point in our marriage.
For the first time I decided to call my parents but they did not help me.”
Going back home was not an option so she put up with the man until the abuse grew worse.
“He did not stop cheating, but I told myself the marriage had to work. The longer I waited, the more violent he became.
I received beatings, even with my first pregnancy. The emotional abuse was worse than the physical abuse and I had to leave that marriage. And the worst thing is that I left my son with him.”

My hubby has been smelling my ‘nunu’ for the last 17 years, narrates distressed Nairobi woman

 

A lady from Nairobi left listeners shocked when she narrated about the kind of embarrassments she has managed to put up with in her marriage for the last 17 years, all in the name of the love for her kids.

Sema Na Raey: Nililala na mother-in-law nilipize kisasi (Audio)

The lady who goes by the name Evelyn, narrated to Radio Jambo’s Annitah Raey, of how her jealous yet uncanny has subjected her to psychological torture by smelling her body on a daily basis, to ensure that she was not out there busy cheating on him while he is out working. This has been his tradition for the last 17 years.

To make matters worse, despite her toiling everyday in efforts to earn a better living for their four children through casual labor, the weirdo has the audacity of bringing in different women to their marital home whenever he pleases. Looks like he he is too nosy to smell the irony.

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Nimekuwa kwa ndoa kwa miaka kumi na misaba. Shida ni una mwanaume ambaye nikienda kazi nikirudi kazi yake ni kunusia kwa shamba ajue ni nani ametoka kulima. Amekuwa akinusa kila siku kwa miaka kumi na misaba na tuna watoto wanne lakini kazi ni kuninusa mwili mzima. She said.

Sababu yake ni ananishuku kwani yeye ameajiriwa nami nafanya kazi ya vibarua na kila wakati akijua nina pesa kidogo huanza kuninusanusa. Alikuwa ananipiga kitambo lakini nilipompeleka kwa serikali aliawacha, sasa ni kunusa tu mwili na tabia mbovu mbovu.

She added, Yeye huniletea mwanamke kwa nyumba tunaishi naye siku mbili tatu, anatoka analeta mwingine tena. Navumulia juu ya watoto sasa nitaenda wapi na watoto wanne sahii? Kazi yenyewe haipatikani ni vibarua tu na maisha ya Nairobi ni magumu.

Listen to her confession below.

Nani Ataokoa Jahazi? Meet 28-year-Old Mother Of One Who’s Desperately Looking For A Husband

Photos of a woman dressed in a wedding gown, holding a placard with a message, “I need a husband” have gone viral on social media.

The 28-year-old mother of one who identifies herself as Nyambura, was spotted walking along Tom Mboya street with her 7-year-old daughter with hopes she might land her prince charming.

Need for a husband. Pris Nyabura 28-years. I have a girl child 7 yrs. 0737350766. Read the placard.

Her photos elicited a number of reactions from Kenyans, some who supported her move while some were against her courageous move.

Apollo Wokabi:  Welcome Isaiah 4:1- This one oh God help her…Better this than prostituting.

Imbugwa Atonya Wycliffe: Nyabura looking for plan B.

John Herviy: Have you ever seen such posts in the western region??? Wanaume waluhya wanatambua there duties.
Kedogo Velky Kigwiru: She has a wedding gown already and the daughter has a radio…entertainment sorted.

Will Miss Nyambura land her prince charming?

See the photos below.

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Sio Kila Mwanamke Aliyeolewa Na Mzungu Ana Mume Wa Kiafrika – Asema Nyota Ndogo

Anapoadhimisha mwaka mmoja katika ndoa, Bi Nyota Noogo amekuja na jipya.

Kama ilivyo kawaida yake mwimbaji huyu wa Watu na Viatu ameweka picha yake na mumewe katika mtandao wa Facebok, bila shaka kumshukuru maulana.

“1year alhamdulilah.tulitrend kwa njia moja ama nyengine but MUNGU ndio anajua tunapo enda.zidi kuiongoza ndoa hii.hakuna ku edit”.

Showbiz writer Manuel Ntoyai (left) and Mombasa-based hip hop artiste Hustla Jay (right) with the newly weds Courtesy The star

 

Kumbuka kwamba wakati wa harusi yake wengi walikashifu vipodozi vyake lakini mwenye anakwambia la msingi ni kwamba ameolewa.

Katika  mazungumzo yetu naye Nyota anasema, ”ukiona nimeweka picha na mume wangu ni kwa sababu sina la kuficha”.

Anadai kuna wanawake walioolewa na wazungu kama wengi wanavyowaita lakini kichini chini wana waume zao wa kiafrika hivyo kwao ni vigumu kuweka picha za waume zao kwa sababu wanahofia kupatikana.

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‘Chukua Shamba, Wazungu Hugeuka,’ Fans Advise Nyota Ndogo After Her Ancestor Promises To Buy Her Land

Mombasa songstress Nyota Ndogo is a shrewd businesswoman. She doesn’t waste her hard earned cash on frivolous expenditures.

She saves and invests.

Unlike her counterparts, Nyota has a home that she built from her own earnings bila loan. The spacious mansion located in Voi, is always featured on her social media posts. You cannot miss it.

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Now, she is making other boss moves.

The Watu na Viatu star wants to buy a huge chunk of land, courtesy of her mzungu hubby, Henning Nielsen.

She wrote on social media, “Jamani kuna hii shamba nimekwenda kununuliwa leo wapenzi. nimefika nimeona nimependa heka mbili. ila nimegeuza roho nilipofika maana mimi sio mkulima kisha mda wangu mwingi wausafiri kazi na mziki. sasa sinitaibiwa mimi vyakula baada nipate faida nipate haraka mpaka mtu akuulize nilinunua hasara. Vizuri nijijue tu kua sitakua na mda na shamba.itanipa stress kwakweli.NYIE LEO MUNI ADVICE PLZZ.nimerudi kufikiria tena home.”

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A city woman who uses the name Maurine A. Doering advised,

“Usisite kuchukua hiyo shamba nyota, wazungu hubadilika haraka hakikisha umeangalia poa hiyo shamba na ubadilishe jina iwe yako kwa barua ya shamba wazungu ni walewale mkiachana mnagawa malizote kua mjanja.”

Here are more reactions to Nyota’s question…From the suggestion’s it shows Kenyans have very good business minds.

Lucy Wangui: Kubali badae utaona matunda yake. Weka mtu umuaminie akusimamie.

Alfan Mwachewa: Enda ununue rentals instead.

Phoebe Jebet: Nyota pliz kubali ununuliwe shamba.boy wako anahitaji shamba hiyo baadaye.ama unaweza uza ikurudishie pesa mara mob incase ukipata kusumbuka nayo.

Nalonja Safi: If you can borrow a leaf from Akothee, she does it very well…Uzuri Wa shamba bei hupanda kila siku.

James Wananda Tucker: My dear sister, look for one near a town and build a rental estate, it will help you and your children in future plus even your grandchildren,am good in those areas just inbox me for more advices.

Eunice Shady: Nunua then jenga kanyumba hata kama ni ya mabati…at least pple will respect the place.

Tinah Sish: Wanawake mizubao ndo hatutaki huku kwetu. Nini wewe? Shamba wafikiria twice!!!!! heheeee!! Una mchezo Nyota wewe!

Pauline Bianca Nyota: Take the land, have your title, no one knows tomorrow, for now you can temporary sell it to someone for 10 years akuwe akitumia, when the period is over you can take the land or renew the contract.

Unaweza Kweli…Would You Take Back Cheating Partner Who Gave You HIV? (AUDIO)

On Tuesday, one Mr. Patrick shocked Radio Jambo listeners when he called in seeking to be reconciled with his wife of eight years, even after she not only cheated on him, but also infected him with HIV/Aids.

According to Patrick, a carpenter, he got into a relationship with Ruth back in 2009 after which the two settled down together without the 29-year-old mother of one disclosing her HIV status to her husband. He only learnt of her status after he jokingly insisted she get tested since “She wasn’t growing big even if I bought her all the healthy foods I could think of.”

According to Patrick, his wife found out she was HIV positive but he, on the other hand, was negative. The two were dying to have children which they did after getting the thumbs up from their doctor. He unfortunately later got infected.

“After she realized that I was also infected, that is when her attitude towards me changed and she became disrespectful to the extent of cheating on me.” He said.

“I forgave her the first time even after I caught her pants down with her lover, but afterwards, I realized she was acting weird and I came to a conclusion that she was back with the same guy and that’s when things went south after I confronted her. ” said a distraught Patrick insisting that he still wanted to reconcile and get back together with his wife.

PATANISHO: Licha Ya Kumwambukiza Maradhi Ya Ukimwi, Patrick Alimsamehe Mkewe

Ruth confirmed she cheated on him and they solved it all but blamed her husband for relying on hearsay, rather than digging for evidence.

Question is, would you take back a cheating spouse who infected you with HIV?.

We sought some views from members of the public and here’s what they had to say.

 

 

This Is The Reason Why Women Are Better Than Men At Spotting Cheaters

Suspecting your partner of cheating is a tricky dilemma to navigate. But if you’re a woman, it’s more likely your inkling is, in fact, right on the mark.

Indy100 claims that according to a survey by Illicit Encounters, 79 per cent of women and 49 per cent of men correctly guessed their partner was cheating.

The dating site for married people also found that women were twice as likely to confront their husband if they suspected them of cheating.

They were also more than twice as likely to call a private investigator to snoop on their partner.

READ; Man kills wife, and nine-year-old daughter before committing suicide

The sexes were on slightly more even terrain when it came to coming clean about cheating: 85 per cent of women and 82 per cent of men said they had denied their affair when confronted.

Christian Grant, spokesperson for the site, said women trust their gut. Men, on the other hand, not so much:

Maybe it’s a woman’s intuition, or maybe blokes are doing a terrible job of covering their tracks, but it’s safe to say that if you have a suspicion that your partner is cheating, however slight, it’s worth trusting your gut on this one… if you’re a woman, anyway.

Men on the other hand aren’t getting any help from their gut whatsoever. They’re either completely oblivious that their wife is cheating on them, or they’re more fearful of incorrectly accusing their wife when she may be totally innocent.

KIRINYAGA: Mwanamme Alazwa Baada Ya Kuchomwa Na Mkewe

Mafuta ya taa. | picha: indianexpress.com

Mwanamme mmoja amelazwa katika hospitali moja huko Kirinyaga baada ya kuchomwa na mkewe walipogombana kufuatia mzozo wa kinyumbani.

Inadaiwa kuwa mkewe alisubiri hadi mwathiriwa alipolala kisha akamwagia mafuta ya taa na kuwasha moto kabla ya kutoroka.

Polisi wameanzisha uchunguzi kwa kisa hicho na wanamsaka mwanamke huyo.

 

NGONG: Man Allegedly Commits Suicide After Quarrel With Wife

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Police in Kajiado county are investigating an incident in which a man was found dead at his home after allegedly committing suicide.

The incident happened in Lower Matasia area, Ngong, on Monday evening.

The man is said to have taken poison following a quarrel with his  wife.

The body was taken to the City Mortuary.

– The STAR

NAIROBI: Man Denies Stabbing Wife For Allegedly Killing His Cow

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A 50-year-old man charged with stabbing his wife for allegedly killing his cow told a court she is a witch.

The man, Barnabas Maswi, denied the charges before Chief Magistrate Heston Nyaga on Monday and instead accused his wife, Teresia Mwenge of killing his cow by feeding it a kilo of nails.

The incident took place in Kayole Estate, Nairobi County, on September 20 and the accused was released on KES 10,000 cash bail. The case will be heard on March 8, 2016.

– read more: http://www.the-star.co.ke/news/man-says-wife-witch-denies-stabbing-her-over-dead-cow