‘Sikujua nitangoja mtoto kwa miaka 7’ – Kambua asema anapoadhimisha siku ya harusi yake

Msanii wa gospel Kambua  ni kilelezo kwa jamii kuhusu jinsi ndoa inavyoweza kuwa taaasisi nzuri na kitovu cha kila kizuri katika jamii . Mama huyo wa  mtoto  mmoja  hivi maajuzi ameadhimisha miaka minane ya ndoa yake  kwa mumewe Jackson Mathu  katika ukurasa wake wa  Instagram .

‘Alinipiga uchi wa mnyama mbele ya mwanangu.’ Mwanadada Mercy aeleza aliyoyapitia katika ndoa ya dhulma

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Ndoa yao hata hivyo haijakuwa rahisi kwa ajili imechukua miaka saba  kwa  Kambua na mume wake kupata mtoto na Mola alijibu ombi lao .

Baada ya kupata mimba ya mtoto wao wa kwanza, Kambua sasa amekuwa  nuru kwa wanawake ambao wanataraji kuwa wazazi siku moja .

Ujumbe wake katika instagram ulisema hivi ;

Right after our wedding ceremony there was a heavy downpour (see the windows). It was magical!
I remember this day like it was yesterday, when the hubs and I exchanged vows. I remember my excitement and anxiety all interwoven into a beautiful tapestry that would be our future.

As with every wedding the ministers prayed and spoke blessings over us…blessed my womb, and spoke fruitfulness over us. And as an eager wide-eyed bride I said a resounding “Amen”!

‘Karibu niitoe mimba ya mtoto wa Diamond’ Tanasha Donna

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Msichana apata mimba ya babake na kumpokonya mamake mume

What I did not know then, was that I would be sitting in ‘the waiting room’ for 7 years. 7! I would watch my friends have babies- one, then two, then five…! I would attend endless baby showers and first birthdays. In the waiting room I would walk with friends who were devastated at the ‘inconvenience’ of a badly timed pregnancy. Whoa.
I didn’t know how accustomed I would be to the ONE line on a pregnancy test. Empty arms, empty womb, empty heart

Kambua anaendelea kusema;

But then God healed me. He healed my heart and shifted my mind. He lifted my head even when mockery and shame arose. He remained the voice of truth. And after I had made my peace with him, that he would bless me in whichever way, at whatever time, then heaven moved. My name was called. I had been next in line and didn’t even know it! With hope and yes, alot of anxiety I exited the waiting room and became a mother. God has honored me in ways I can never fathom. Not by anything I did, but by His grace.
He is a God who loves us. He is faithful. He remains undefeated

 

 

 

 

Wanauliza ni vipi nilipata ujauzito,asema Kambua

NA NICKSON TOSI

Mtangazaji Kambua amefunguka na kusema amekuwa akivumilia kuelezea historia yake kwa umma jinsi alivyopata ujauzito  kwa sababu wanawake wamekuwa wakimuuliza ni nini alichokifanya ndiposa akawa mjamzito.

Katika mahojiano ya hivi karibuni na jarida la Parents Magazine, Kambua alisema hana majibu yoyote kuhusiana na maswali hayo .

Mama Nate kama anavyojulikana na watu wa karibu, alisema kuwa mwanawe Nathaniel ni  miujiza kutoka kwa mwenyezi baada ya kubaguliwa kwa muda na jamii.

Women have been asking what I did to get pregnant – Kambua

Aidha, Kambua alisema safari yake ya kupata mtoto haijakuwa rahisi na atatengeneza ratiba ya kuwaleta pamoja watu waliopitia katika changamoto kwa maisha kuelezea historia yao.
Women have been asking what I did to get pregnant – Kambua

Aliongeza kwa kusema kuwa safari yake imekuwa ya manufaa zaidi katika mamia ya watu na kwa jamii kwa ujumla.

I’m unafraid of having this kind of conversations because I know how it feels. My journey was painful, but it helped me speak up for other people who are constantly facing pressure from all kinds of places,” alisema Kambua.

Kambua reveals why she declined to grace the Cover of Parents Magazine 4 years ago

Mume wangu aliumia niliposhtumiwa kwa kutokuwa na mtoto-Kambua

Kupitia mtandao wa kijamii msanii wa nyimbo za injili Kambua aliandika ujumbe wa kuwatia wengi moyo na hata kueleza jinsi alivyopitia mengi na hata kukosolewa na wengi alipokuwa hajabarikiwa na mtoto.

Baada ya miaka saba katika ndoa, Kambua alibarikiwa na kifungua mimba tarehe10/08/2019, huku akijifungua kwa njia ya upasuaji.

Kambua amsifu mumewe kwa kuwa naye kwa wakati mgumu aliopitia

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“FOR ABOUT TWO YEARS WE WERE FOCUSSED ON SETTLING AND ADJUSTING TO BEING MARRIED BEFORE WE STARTED A FAMILY, BUT THE PRESSURE STARTED ALMOST IMMEDIATELY.” Kambua Alisema.

Kambua alimsifu na kumshukuru mumewe kwa kuwa naye alipokuwa akikejeliwa na mashabiki wake,

‘Mwanangu aliwasili mapema kinyume na matarajio!’ Kambua afichua

“IT’S NORMAL TO FEEL A CERTAIN LEVEL OF DISAPPOINTMENT BUT I’M BLESSED TO HAVE A VERY STRONG HUSBAND BECAUSE AS MUCH AS SOCIETY BLAMED ME, HE CARRIED THAT BURDEN WITH ME. IT HURT HIM THAT I WAS BEING CRITICIZED AND PUT ON THE SPOT FOR NOT HAVING CHILDREN AND WOULD CONSTANTLY ENCOURAGE ME, SHE NARRATED.” Alizungumza.

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Aliongeza usema kuwa mbali na kukosolewa na kukejeliwa kwa kutokuwa na mtoto aliweka imani yake kwa Mungu. Alisema wengi wa waliokuwa wakizomea ni wanawake wenzake.

 

“I LEARNT THAT PEOPLE, IN GENERAL, ARE VERY INSENSITIVE AND UNKIND TO COUPLES WITH FERTILITY ISSUES OR HAVE HAD A LONG WAIT. YOU’D IMAGINE THAT THE FIRE WOULD COME FROM MEN BECAUSE WOMEN WOULD BE MORE UNDERSTANDING, BUT IT WAS ALMOST IN EQUAL MEASURE AND SOMETIMES WOMEN WERE THE ONES WHO FANNED THOSE FLAMES.” Alieleza.

Unyanyapaa ulinifanya niziwe kwa gazeti la Parents Magazine,asema Kambua

NA NICKSON TOSI

Mtangazaji wa runinga ya Citizen na muimbaji Kambua amefichuwa kuwa ukosefu wa kukosa mwana na unyanyapaa kutoka kwa umma ulimfanya akose kushirikishwa katika gazeti la Parents Magazine miaka 4 iliyopita.

Katika ujumbe tulioutazama ,mtyangazaji huyo wa kipindi cha Rauka alisema swala hilo lilimfanya kufikiria zaidi na kuelezea historia yake kutokana na  uoga na kubaguliwa na ummaa.

“About 4years ago I met Eunice Mathu (Dir. Parent’s Magazine), in Wamba, Samburu. I’d gone there with AMREF Health Intl. for the Alternative Rites of Passage for girls. Anyway, she asked me to grace the cover of her magazine and I quickly declined, exclaiming, “But I have no children”! She insisted that even though I didn’t, I still had a voice to speak into that space. Well, I didn’t. I wasn’t ready. Looking at this cover my eyes well up because God was and is still writing my story. Thank you Eunice Mathu for finding me worthy even when I doubted myself,”ulisoma ujumbe wa  Kambua.

Kambua reveals why she declined to grace the Cover of Parents Magazine 4 years ago

Kmabua anayetazamiwa na wengi kama kielelezo alikiri kuwa mtoto wake aliyejifungua ni miujiza ya Mungu baada ya kupitia kwa changamoto si haba.

“My years of waiting were so daunting. But I wouldn’t take them back. The lessons God taught me…the encounters I have had with Him, are all priceless. When the pain was gut wrenching and my heart nearly drowned in tears, I never stopped believing that God would come through for me (whichever way He chose to). And as I hold my toto today I am reminded that God gives good gifts. My baby Nathaniel is a miracle; He is, as my husband likes to say, a world-changer and a history-maker. And I believe His life will continue to bring glory to God,” alisema  Kambua.

Kambua reveals why she declined to grace the Cover of Parents Magazine 4 years ago

 Kambua ambaye kwa sasa yuko katika gazeti hilo la Parents Magazine aliwahimiza wanawake wote wanaopitia katika changamoto kama hizo kumwamini mwenyezi Mungu na kufahamu kuwa io siku Mungu atafungua milango.

“May every waiting womb be reminded that God remains faithful even when we are faithless? As you wait, my tent remains pitched right next to yours, in the land of hope. I haven’t crossed over alone. We will cross together, leaving no one behind. None of us shall be left drowning in despair. Our stories, regardless of how they unfold, will be beacons of hope along ancient paths. If you’re still trusting for a miracle, just drop me a 💓. I’m praying for you 🙏🏾💛,” alisema Kambua.

Kambua na mumewe Jackson Mathu walikaribisha mtoto wao wa kwanza baada ya miaka 7 kwa ndoa.

Kambua reveals why she declined to grace the Cover of Parents Magazine 4 years ago

Viongozi mashuhuri waliopoteza baba zao.

Unapowaona katika mitandao ya kijamii utadhani hawana shida yeyote na wako na wazazi wote wawili, lakini kwa hakika wengi wamewapoteza baba zao.

Kuna msemo unaosema baba ndiye  msingi wa familia lakini licha ya wao kuwapoteza wamejikakamua kisabuni.

Mashabiki kutoa hisia zao baada ya Avril na Naiboi kusamehana

Hawa hapa baadhi ya waliowapoteza baba zao.

Gavana Mike Sonko

Sonko alimpoteza baba yake mwaka wa ,2015, baada ya kuwa mgonjwa  kwa muda mrefu, Sonko aliandika ujumbe na kuwauliza mashabiki wake wamuombee baba yake.

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Wasanii walioa wanawake ambao wana watoto

mwanamziki wa nyimbo za injili alimpoteza baba yake mwaka wa ,2014,Profesa Manundu alikuwa anawashauri watu jinsi ya kuwa na afya njema katika runinga ya NTV kila jumapili asubuhi.

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Daddy Owen

Alimpotez baba yake mwaka wa ,2017, baada ya kupatwa na mshtuko wa moyo na  habari za kifo chake zilijulikana tu baada ya Owen kutuma ujumbe kwa familia na marafiki wake wa karibu.

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David Rudisha

Mwanariadha Rudisha alimpoteza baba yake, Matasi Rudisha mwaka jana machi, Daniel alikuwa mwalimu hata na  kocha wa mchezo wa riadha.

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Alistaafu baada ya kushinda tuzo mwaka wa 1968.

Esther Wahome

Msanii huyu alimpoteza baba yake mwaka jana, hii ni baada ya kupigana na ugonjwa wa saratani kwa muda mrefu

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Kifo cha baba yake kilifahamika kupitia mtandao wa kijamii baada ya kuandika ujumbe.

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Kalonje alimpoteza baba yake baada ya kuugua kwamuda mrefu,alimuomboleza baba yake kwa kuandika ujumbe kupitia mtandao wake wa kijamii.

“DEAR DAD, I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING, YOU RAISED US ON ONE PRINCIPLE, LOVE IS THE ANSWER.

IT’S WITH DISBELIEF AND SORROW I SAY GOODBYE TO YOU. MAY YOU REST WELL.

I WILL TAKE CARE OF MUM FOR YOU. TILL WE MEET AGAIN.” Aliandika.

Kambua amsifu mumewe kwa kuwa naye kwa wakati mgumu aliopitia

Mwanamuziki wa nyimbo za injili Kambua kupitia mtandao wake wa kijamii wa instagram aliweza kumsifu mumewe kwa kutomuacha wakati alipokuwa akipitia magumu katika maisha yake.

” Wakati mungu alinipa na kuniunganisha nawe alijua nilichokua nikitaka katika maisha, ulinipenda na kunilinda uliongea maisha ndani yangu, wakati nilipokuwa nimetengwa na wakati matusi na laana zilikuwa zimenenwa juu yangu ulikuwa na mimi,” Aliandika Kambua.

Kuna tofauti ya kuitwa baba na kuwa baba-Jacque Maribe

Kambua aliendelea nakusema kuwa,

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“Katika ndoa yetu ya miaka minane hakuna siku ambayo ulifanya ni hisi sina mtoto na sijakupa mtoto,

“Ulizidi kunikumbusha kuwa mimi ni mpenzi wako wa kila siku,” Alisema.

Mwanamuziki huyo aliweza kukaa katika ndoa bila kupata mtoto, huku watu wengi wakisema kuwa hatawahi kuwa na mtoto.

Baadaye alibarikiwa na mtoto ambaye alimsherehekea kwa njia ya kifahari.

Alizidi kuandika na kusema,

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“Kila siku ulikua unanikumbusha kuwa Mungu alihahidi kujaza kikombe chetu, na sasa nashuhudia matendo yake akiendelea kutimiza ahadi yake,

“Nakupongeza baba Muhoro kwa miaka ambayo tunayo na miaka ambayo tutakua nayo na baba wa watoto wangu,” Kambua Alimsifu.

Kambua alisema maneno haya baada ya kuweka sherehe ya kumshukuru Mungu kwa kumbariki na mtoto.

 

 

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Ni ujumbe ambao uliwafanya wasanii na mashabiki wengi kumpongeza mwanamuziki Kambua, zifuatazo ni baadhi ya jumbe ambazo waliweza kutuma katika mtandao wa kijamii.

Watoto wangu wamenileta karibu sana na Mungu-Janet Mbugua

pierramakenaofficial;I keep liking this over and over forgetting i can only double tap once….babe you are soo blessed.. i join in this Thanksgiving..love you Ma .

bencycoGod’s so faithful and this is evident, God bless you more and your family Kambua 🙏🙏

celestinegachuhiAaaw❤️🙏May God bless you people

itsliz80Such a blessed couple. May your cups overflow with more blessings and favor from our good Lord!

 

 

‘Mwanangu aliwasili mapema kinyume na matarajio!’ Kambua afichua

Kwa kina dada waja wazito, ni jambo la kawaida kwa jamaa na marafiki wao kuwaandalia karamu wiki au siku chache kabla wajifungue. Karamu yenyewe inajulikana kama ‘Baby Shower’

Hata hivyo, kulingana na msanii na mtangazaji, Kambua, hilo halikufanyika kwani mwanawe aliwasili mapema kinyume na matarajio yake.

Msanii Kambua azungumza kuhusu safari ya kujifungua kwa upasuaji

Kambua alimkaribisha mwanawe wa kwanza kwa jina Nathaniel Muhoro mwishoni mwa mwaka uliopita baada ya miaka saba katika ndoa.

Wikendi iliyopita, jamaa na marafiki zake walimuandalia karamu ya kukata na shoka ili kusherehekea kuzaliwa kwa mwanawe. Kupitia mtandao wake wa Instagram, Kambua alifichua mbona hakuwa na karamu na baby shower.
Alisema,

THIS PAST WEEKEND MY FAMILY CAME TOGETHER AND PUT UP A MOST PRECIOUS CELEBRATION FOR MY LITTLE BUB, NATHANIEL MUHORO. LAST YEAR A BABY SHOWER WAS PLANNED AND IT BACKFIRED 🤭 BECAUSE BABY DECIDED TO COME EARLY! I’LL TALK MORE ABOUT THIS SOMEDAY. I’VE LEARNED TO UNPACK ALL MY EXPERIENCES SLOWLY. HE CAME EARLY, BUT STILL RIGHT ON TIME. I AM ETERNALLY GRATEFUL FOR A HEALTHY BABY. GOD’S WAYS ARE PERFECT, AND THEY ARE GOOD.

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‘Walinikejeli na kuniita majina!’ Kambua afungukua kuhusu shida zilizomkumba

Ni takriban miezi minne tangia msanii Kambua ajifungue mtoto wa kiume, na kila siku amekuwa akiimba nyimbo za kumsifu mungu wa Sarah ambaye baada ya miaka mingi bila kujaliwa na mwana, alimkumbuka.

Kupitia mtandao wake wa Instagram, Kambua amekuwa akipeana ushuhuda wake wa jinsi alivyomngoja mola baada ya wengi kumsengenya kwa kukosa mwana.

Mungu halali! Muimbaji Kambua ajaliwa mtoto wa kiume

Hatimaye alipotangaza kuwa anatarajia mtoto, dunia mzima ilisimama na kusherehekea miujiza ya mola. Wasanii wenza wakenya kutoka tabaka mbali mbali walifurika katika mitandao ya kijamii na kumnyunyuzia jumbe za furaha na hongera.

Msanii huyo ambaye ameolewa na mchungaji Jackson Mathu, hivi majuzi alifunguka kuhusu safari yake ya mimba na mwishowe ilivyombidi ajifungue kupitia upasuaji.

Alisema,

“This is me thanking God that I can fit into one of my pre-preggers dresses. My body has changed alot and I am embracing it all. I stretched in ways I never knew were possible! Isn’t God amazing? And then went through a CS (story for another day). Recovering from it is not a joke!” she wrote on Instagram.

Alisema kuwa kwa sasa kazi kuu ni kujichunga na kumlea mwanawe kwa namna bora huku akisema kuwa licha ya mwili wake kubadilika kwa kiwango kikuu, anamshukuru mola kwa kumfanya mzazi na hajutii lolote.

Hii leo amefunguka kuhusu jinsi watu walimuita majina na kumkejeli kuwa hana uwezo wa kubeba mtoto. Isitoshe, watu hao hao walimwambia kuwa hawezi keti nao na walimnyamazisha kila walipopata fursa.

Aliandika,

‘Ulezi ni ngumu’ Kambua azungumzia changamoto zake kama mama

All it takes is one move from God. Just one, and your story changes. They called me all sorts of things! Constantly reminded me that I didn’t have a seat at the table. Silenced me at every opportunity. But in the wait, and the longing, God looked at me and said I was worthy. He saw me as complete, lacking nothing. He reminded me that He is the God who changes times and seasons.

Hata hivyo, aliendelea na ujumbe wake huku akimshukuru mungu kwa kupanguza machozi yake na kumfanya mama.

And after all the noise, after the mockery and public shaming, Jehovah Himself arose! He wiped my tears and gave me a new name. I am a mother y’all! To the cutest little boy I have ever laid my eyes on. This covenant-keeping God is only getting started with me, and I am not running after miracles; I’m running after His heart. 💛

 

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All it takes is one move from God. Just one, and your story changes. They called me all sorts of things! Constantly reminded me that I didn't have a seat at the table. Silenced me at every opportunity. But in the wait, and the longing, God looked at me and said I was worthy. He saw me as complete, lacking nothing. He reminded me that He is the God who changes times and seasons. And after all the noise, after the mockery and public shaming, Jehovah Himself arose! He wiped my tears and gave me a new name. I am a mother y'all! To the cutest little boy I have ever laid my eyes on. This covenant-keeping God is only getting started with me, and I am not running after miracles; I'm running after His heart. 💛 . . . #mamanate #praisebe #untoHimwhocausesmetotriumph #Inthefulnessoftime #waitingwombs #wonthedoit #2019 #GodofKambua #Anatimiza . . 📷@jacksonmwangi_photography 👗@the_native_woman 💄@naserianne_mua

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Msanii Kambua azungumza kuhusu safari ya kujifungua kwa upasuaji

Msanii wa nyimbo za injili na mrembo kupindukia, Kambua alijifungua kifungua mimba wake mwaka huu kupitia upasuaji, al maarufu Caesarian section, kwa kimombo.

Kambua alifunguka hivi majuzi na kusema kuwa bado anaendelea kupata nafuu akisema kuwa kovu hiyo itachukua mda kupona.

Alisema,

“This is me thanking God that I can fit into one of my pre-preggers dresses. My body has changed alot and I am embracing it all. I stretched in ways I never knew were possible! Isn’t God amazing? And then went through a CS (story for another day). Recovering from it is not a joke!” she wrote on Instagram.

Alisema kuwa kwa sasa kazi kuu ni kujichunga na kumlea mwanawe kwa namna bora huku akisema kuwa licha ya mwili wake kubadilika kwa kiwango kikuu, anamshukuru mola kwa kumfanya mzazi na hajutii lolote.

“I have chosen to be kind to myself. Giving myself the time I need to heal, and also to nurture my toto. I haven’t even told you about the edges I’ve lost because of breastfeeding! But I have no regrets. It’s all been worthwhile. Next year I will think about diets and workouts. (That baby pouch will need to go). But for now I’m counting my blessings, enjoying the chubby cheeks and snug clothes lol.”

Kambua hakusahau kuzungumzia watu ambao tabia zao ni kuwatusi na kuwaaibisha wenzao kwa misingi ya miili yao na maumbile.

Aliwashauri wazazi kutojali sana kuhusu miili yao baada ya kujifungua huku akiwakumbusha kuwa itawachukua mda kabla miili yao iregeleekama zamani.

“Please be kind to your friends postpartum. There’s so much pressure to “snap back”, without considering that being alive after birthing a child is a miracle in itself. Watu wa, “umenona”, please have several seats over there…”

‘Ulezi ni ngumu’ Kambua azungumzia changamoto zake kama mama

Mwanamziki Kambua amekuwa mama kwa muda wa miezi mitatu na ni wazi kuwa huwa anajivunia sana kuwa mama.

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Hata hivyo vile tujuavyo kuwa,hakuna kitu kilicho rahisi duniani. Kambua alifunguka na kueleza mwanzo mwisho maisha yake kama mama yako vipi.

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Binti huyu alisema kuwa, pasi na kuwa amekosa usingizi siku nyingi na kufura macho na hata kuwa na uchafu mwingi kwenye nguo, hajuti hata kidogo kuwa mama kwani anajivunia sana kuitwa mama.

Aisee, kuzaa si kazi kulea ndio kazi.

          ”Eye bags. Burp on nearly all my clothes. Soiled diapers. Still, I wouldn’t trade this new adventure for  a anything. Motherhood is H.A.R.D! But oh so rewarding.”

Kambua alisema.Vilevile,Kambua alisema kuwa hata kama sazingine sisi huwaona kina mama wakiwanyonyesha watoto wao na tunafikiri kuwa ni kazi rahisi si kazi rahisi hata kidogo na kwa hivyo ikiwa amemuona mwanamke yeyote akiwa na matatizo,atakuwa wa kwanza kumsaidia mama huyu.

Usimuache mpenzi wako! Maono kuwa yeye ndiye mume wako

”Who knew that something as natural as breastfeeding could be so daunting? Or that sometimes your little one will cry and you’ll end up in tears yourself? Who knew that sleep could become such a luxury?🤷🏾‍♀️ I salute every mother who’s been on this journey. For staying on course amidst the challenges. And for not giving up. And to every new mummy like me, who’s navigating this path with a big L sign “kurutu”- you are doing just fine. You have all it takes to nurture that little one. And when you need to lean in and ask for help, please do! I’ll talk about my little village of helpers soon💛” Kambua alisema.

Baada ya video ya Size 8 kuhusu mwendo wake wa kujifungua kitoto chake cha pili kusambaa kwenye mitandao ya kijamii,Kambua alimuandikia Size 8 ujumbe uliosoma,

“Today I celebrate Mama Wambo @size8reborn for crossing over victoriously! My own journey has taught me that it is nothing short of a miracle to conceive, carry, and birth a child. The journey was tough mama, but God carried you. We welcome your little one kwa shangwe na nderemo!!💃🏾🎉 Ah! Jehovah did it! You are dearly loved. May He pour more grace on you in this season 💛💛💛.” Kambua aliandika.

Ama kwa hakika,uchungu wa mwana aujuaye ni mama.