Jombi akwama akila uroda na katibu wake ofisini

Wakaazi wa mtaa wa Joska, Machakos walipata maonyesho ya sinema ya bure baada ya kisa na ambapo jamaa mmoja mfanyabiashara alipatikana amekwama katika uke wa katibu wake kipindi na ambapo walikuwa wanajipa burudani ofisini.

Soma hapa:

Ata kama umeokoka, macho huwa hayaokoki-Askofu Deya

Bibiye jamaa huyu alikuwa anapata ubuyu kuhusu jinsi bwanake anavyochepuka na binti fulani ofisini. Kando na cheche za ubuyu wa majirani, bibiye alianza kuona mabadiliko ya tabia ya bwanake kama kuja nyumbani masaa ya usiku  na wakati mwingine kukesha nje na kuja nyumbani siku inayofuata.

“Tulikuwa na mzozano na bwanangu kuhusu yeye kuja nyumbani kama amechelewa. Alianza kuchelewa sio kama awali.  Iwapo angechelewa angepiga simu na kunieleza.” alifunguka bibiye.

Bibiye alijanjaruka na kujua atamwendea kwa mganga ampe dawa mujarabu ya kumnasa bwanake.Dawa hii ilifanya kazi kwani baada ya siku mbili alipigiwa simu na watu walioshuhudia kisa hiki mubashara.

Pata uhondo hapa;

Namzidi mpenzi wangu kwa miaka 50- Askofu Gilbert Deya 

“Siku mbili zilipita na nikaanza kupigiwa simu zaidi ya ishirini nikielezwa kuwa bwanangu amekwama ndani ya mwanamke ofisini. Nikafika pale na kupigwa na butwaa zaidi.”

Bwanake aliomba msamaha na kusema kuwa atamfuta kazi katibu huyo na baadaye bibiye akapigia daktari wake wa mitishamba na kumwambia jinsi atakavyowafanya huru.

“Daktari wangu alisema niwamwangie  dawa fulani alikuwa amenipa na wakawa sawa.” alisimulia mkewe.

 

Jombi atumia gundi kumfunga mkewe sehemu za siri

Kisa cha kushangaza kimefanyika nchini Qatar katika familia moja ya jombi na ambaye kwa muda mrefu amekuwa akimshuku na kuwa na wivu wa kimapenzi uliopita mipaka kwa bibi yake.

Hii ni hali ambayo hutokea mara kwa mara katika mahusiano mengi miongoni mwa watu ila kalameni huyu alizidisha mno.

Soma mengine hapa.

Lawyer Assa Nyakundi who killed son to be detained a little longer

Alikuwa anajiandaa kuenda safari yake ambayo ilitakiwa ichukue siku kadhaa wakati na ambapo alishtuka ghafla kuona bibiye  amechapisha picha inayoonyesha kisigino katika akaunti yake maridhawa ya Facebook. Katika nchi ya Qatar, inaaminika kuwa ni mwiko kwa mwanadada kuonyesha sehemu kama hii na nyinginezo  kwa watu wengi hususan kwenye mitandao ya kijamii kama Facebook.

Itikadi hizi huwabana wanawake na huwa wanatakiwa kila mara kuhifadhi na kuwa wakweli katika jamii. Alizidi kupekua katika mtandao huu na kuona bibi yake pia ameridhishwa na kufurahishwa na picha iliyochapishwa na binamu yake wa jinsia ya kiume.

Husband ‘stabbed his estranged wife after she served him divorce papers

Alikasirika bwanake na akachukua gundi na kwa kutumia nguvu nyingi akaitumia kuzifunga sehemu zake za siri mke wake. Hali kadhalika alimburuza bibiye kortini ili aweze kuyajibu mashtaka ya kuonekana anasaliti penzi lao na binamu yake wa jinsia ya kiume.

Jaji alihoji kuwa kosa hilo kweli lilikuwa na uzito na kuna uwezekano mkubwa likamsababishia kuzongwa na mawazo na kumkosesha amani. Korti hiyo ilimtoza bibi yake kiasi cha hela kilicho sawa na Kshs 1000  na akaachiliwa huru.

Zari Hassan apata kipenzi kipya

Baada ya ukimya wa muda mrefu, Zari ameweza kutokea katika mitandao ya kijamii na mwanaume ambaye amtamrithi msanii na mkurugenzi wa WCB Diamond Platnumz. Katika chapisho siku ya ijumaa, mrembo huyu na mama wa watoto watano amesema kuwa mwanamume aliyempata kwa sasa ni baraka kubwa kwake.

Zari na Diamond waliachana mwaka uliopita tarehe 14 Februari siku ya wapendanao kwa kuchapisha ua jeusi lililoambatana na ujumbe mzito wa kuonyesha hawapo tena katika mahusiano.

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Zari na mpenzi wa zamani Diamond

Mama Tiffah alionekana kukasirishwa na tendo la mzazi mwenzake kukiri katika runinga na redio kubwa nchini Tanzania kuwa aliweza kufanya tendo la ndoa na kupata mtoto na mwanamitindo Hamisa Mobeto.

Patanisho: Jombi aapa kutopiga bibi yake

Zari The Bosslady ametupia picha ya mpenzi wake mpya katika mtandao wake maridhawa wa Instagram. Katika chapisho  hilo, mama Tiffah ameonekana kummiminia sifa kedekede mume huyu mpya na kubana jina lake kabisa na kumwita Bwana M.

Mrembo huyu ambaye ni msanii kutoka nchi jirani ya Uganda baada ya kumtema staa wa muziki Chibu Dangote alionekana kusononeka sana kwa kumpoteza mpenzi aliyempenda kwa dhati.

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Katika mitandao ya kijamii, anadokeza kwamba mshikaji wake mpya amemkubali pamoja na watoto wake watano. Zari amezaa watoto wawili na Diamond platnumz na watatu na aliyekuwa mmewe marehemu Ivan Ssemwanga.

Zari amefunguka sana maneno matamu kwa mpenzi wake.

“Nimebarikiwa sana kukupata wewe. Nakupenda sana Bwana M… Sio kwa vitu unazoninunulia wewe kwa kuwa nimeona tena kubwa na nzuri maishani mwangu ila naupenda moyo wako na jinsi unavyonifanya nijihisi vizuri pamoja na watoto wangu.” Anasema mrembo huyu.

Akionekana kuwa amepitia katika mahusiano ya mateso,  mrembo huyu amesema kuwa yeye huwajenga wanaume na wala sio sampuli ya wanawake wanaotegemea kupewa na wanaume.

“Mimi sio sampuli ya wanawake wanaochukua kutoka kwa wanaume ila nawajenga.”

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Zari Hassan

Anasema Bwana M ni tofauti na wapenzi wa jadi na kwamba ana upole na utulivu mwingi ambao unafanya ampende zaidi. Mzazi mwenza Simba  anaonekana kuzama katika mahaba mazito na mtangazaji wa redio Tanasha Donna kutoka hapa nchini.

Penzi lake diamond na Tanasha linaonekana kunoga zaidi baada ya mkali huyu kumpeleka Donna nyumbani Madale na kumtambulisha kwa  familia. Dadake Platnumz anapenda sana mahusiano haya na anajuta kuwa wawili hawa wangekutana zamani.

Ladies take notes! Things you should never expect your house help to do

Most married women who acquire house help to help them around the house have overlooked a few things that their nannies should never get their hands on.

Here is a list of things you should never expect you nanny to do;

1. Serve food to your Husband

Ladies please seat down and listen, only you are allowed to serve your man. It is disrespectful to your man when you sit down and let your nanny serve him. Only you know his rightful portion of food plus it is your job as his wife.

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2. Never give her your bed sheets to wash

Only you and your husband know what goes on under those sheets. It would be nice if you cleaned them yourself and also get them smelling nice for your bed when you put them back.

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‘Stop going through his phone’ Commandments every Woman should follow

 3. Attending to your bedroom

You must never let her attend to your bedroom, whether by cleaning or even getting anything from in there. This is where two become one and vows change to not just words but an actions and take up shape.

The nanny has no business in the room. Take care of it because that is your only personal space that you and your husband own.

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4. Washing your Inner garments

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This is seriously stressing to your nanny. You should never give her you inner garments or your husband’s. Infact you should wash yours and your husbands’. She will clean her clothes, the kids’, yours and your hubbys’ but not your inner garments. Ladies repeat after me!’ not my inner garments’

5. Taking you baby for clinical appointments

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Clinic days are for your baby and you and not the nanny. Bond with your child as you go to the doctor otherwise you will not fully know your baby’s health progress. If possible go as both parents and the baby and even go for a lunch date right after to strengthen the bond.

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‘Stop going through his phone’ Commandments every Woman should follow

A woman has taken to social media to advice fellow women on the commandments they should follow to have a good marriage/relationship.

According to her following these rules will save many women from years of heart ache, ulcers and depression.
1) Stop going through his phones

For your health sake. You don’t want a man giving you high blood pressure.

If you know his password ask him to change it to what you don’t know so that even if he forgets his phone and you still can’t control the urge, you won’t be able to access it.

2) Get family planning 

Stop the whole abortion thing. If you can’t afford it then download the app called Flo. It helps you know your unsafe period.

3) Find out the cost of leaving him (house rent, feeding)

Start making money and start saving no matter how little it is. Open an account he won’t know of and credit every week.

It’s ok if you don’t want to leave him but you still need your own money.

4) Stop stressing yourself

Stop  doing something special for him eg like cooking. Trust me, his side chic does that already. If you must do something extra do it for yourself or your kids.

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5) Make friends and make a life that does not revolve around him. It’s very important so you don’t lose yourself.

6) You can’t pray a man to change. Prayer only works if he’s willing to change. Rather pray that God gives you the grace to succeed in these things.

7) Virtually every one cheats just that some people manage theirs better. I repeat don’t let him give you high bp its not worth.

8) Mind your business and hopefully he won’t hit you again but if he still does. Then leave him before he kills you and makes his side chic wifey.

9) If you decide to cheat on him too, never send nvdes with your face in.

Video call’s aren’t safe because he can make screenshot.

You don’t want someone blackmailing you. Be sure you’re ready to walk out of your marriage before you go down this line though

‘Have s3x once a week, no matter what!’ couples reveal how they keep their marriages alive

A number of married people have revealed the different ways they keep their marriage going.

As part of its Marriage: An Investigation series, The Cut asked 10 married people to reveal the methods that they rely on to ensure that their marriage stays successful and exciting.

Having sex on a regular basis and avoiding looking at each other’s messages and emails are just some of the many ways the loved-up couples keep their marriages in tact.

Interesting! Married people have revealed the different ways they keep their marriages going, including avoiding looking at each others messages and getting a boob job (stock image)

While many respondents focus their energy on giving each other space, several said the key to keeping their marriage going revolved around their love life.

48-year-old Randy, who has been married for 15 years, said that ‘the best thing’ she ever did for her relationship was getting a boob job.

She explained: ‘I feel sexy every night with my husband now, and it made us stronger and closer, without a doubt.’

Liza, 49, who has been married for almost 20 years, said: ‘Lube. Designer lube. Lube you leave out on your nightstand.’

Similarly, Julia, who has been married to her partner for eight years, said: ‘Have sex once a week, no matter what.’

The 38-year-old added: ‘If you don’t do this, you end up feeling like roommates, and who wants to live with a gross boy?’

Another woman, who has been married to her husband for just three years, said the keep to keeping her marriage going is ‘blow jobs’.

She explained: ‘I can get away with almost anything if I blow him on a regular basis.’

Meanwhile, others said they keep their marriage going by implementing certain rules in place – some of which regard finances.

40-year-old Aviva said: ‘I don’t know or care about his finances. He doesn’t know or care about mine.’

Aviva, who has been married three years, added: ‘If he doesn’t do his taxes on time? F**k it, not my problem.’

Tanya, 33, who has been married for just two years, said: ‘We never, ever, ever look at each other’s emails or texts.

‘Snooping leads to nothing good,’ she added.

Another woman, Carly, 38, said hiring a ‘cleaning person’ is one way she and her partner, who have been married for four years, keep their marriage going.

-Dailymail

‘Why, at 51, I’d never sleep with a man my own age!’ – Writer reveals

A friend introduced me to Dylan when I was 47. He was ridiculously attractive — a personal trainer with blue eyes and blond curls —and there was an instant spark between us. At 27, he was also two decades younger than me.

I’d just signed up for a Tough Mudder challenge, so when Dylan offered to train me for free I leapt at the chance. Soon, we were going on 10k runs four times a week.

The day he asked me out on a date, I could barely contain my joy.

After cheap Italian food (it was all he could afford), we headed back to my flat. The minute I closed the door he kissed me and we made passionate love right there in the hall.

More than once, Dylan told me how sexy I looked — my flat stomach and slender hips, he said, resembled those of a 20-year-old.

Katreen Hardt, 51, (pictured) who says her body is far more extraordinary now than at age 25, explained why she prefers to date younger men

While most women my age might be flattered by such a compliment from a man 20 years their junior, I wasn’t surprised. Now 51, I’m in great shape, tall and slim, thanks to a combination of good genes and working out, and I’ve been told almost the same thing by younger men on many occasions.

Which is why I was appalled when author Yann Moix recently announced that he preferred ‘young women’s bodies’ and that: ‘The body of a 25-year-old woman is extraordinary. The body of a 50-year-old woman is not extraordinary at all.’

To me this makes no sense, and his ignorance — and arrogance — is staggering. If I were to compare my body now with my body at 25, I’d say my body now is far more extraordinary.

I have never felt more attractive. I no longer smoke nor go out drinking every weekend, as I did at university. I take better care of myself by exercising five times a week, getting plenty of sleep and eating a mostly vegetarian diet.

My body reflects these life changes: I’m leaner and far more toned, my complexion glowing and smooth.

However, most 50-year-old men make little or no effort to look as good as I do. In my experience, most men that age are overweight and out of shape — and the thought of having to sleep with one makes my skin crawl.

Young at heart

These days, 16 per cent of relationships comprise an older woman and a younger man compared with just 10 per cent in 1960, found a 2017 study

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‘One thing I cannot do is to have an affair with somebody’s wife,’ – Francis Atwoli

COTU boss Francis Atwoli on Monday refuted claims that he snatched another man’s wife.

“Somebody has been trying to tarnish my name on social media by claiming that I took his wife. That is madness.”

This was in response to a blog which claimed that the COTU leader was involved in an affair with a married TV anchor.

“One thing I cannot do in my life is to have an affair with somebody’s wife. My late father warned me never to fool around with someone’s wife,” he said.

Atwoli said he married his wives after “serious investigations” on their character. The COTU secretary spoke during the official opening of an ILO workshop in Kisumu.

“Of my several wives, I asked their parents if they were single before I married them,” he said.

The outspoken secretary general said he married his youngest wife legally after getting consent from her parents.

Atwoli said Francis Wangara, a long-serving workmate, “helped in arrangements to get the girl”.

He said he has several daughters and is willing to give their hand in marriage to suitable suitors.

“I’m willing to give any man, irrespective of age, as long as they are in love. Let them pay dowry, and we bless them to start their lives,” Atwoli said.

-The Star|MAURICE ALAL

I haven’t spoken to my mom since 1992 after she insisted on choosing a partner for me

Were you forced into marrying someone you don’t love? Have you been in a situation where your parents insisted on choosing a partner for you? Yeah? If so how did you handle the entire drama?

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In a nutshell this was the main topical subject on ‘Sema na Raey’ show by mid-morning host, Annitah Raey.

A number of men were brave enough to open up on the issue but it was one man’s confession which caught everyone’s attention when he claimed that he is yet to talk to his dear mom since 1992, after she repeatedly tried to choose a partner for him.

EXCLUSIVE: Annitah Raey Recounts Life As A Chokora

According to the 49-year-old guy, her mom had made it her mission to choose partners for her sons after successfully doing so for his two other sons.

Read his story below.

Nina miaka 49 na mimi wakati nilioa nilienda nyumbani na bibi yangu na mamangu aliniambia kuwa huyo sio bibi wa kuoa. Sasa aliposema ivo nilitoka na mke wangu na nikarudi Nairobi. He said.

Mamangu ni wale wamama wa kusema lazima wakutafutie bibi na sasa ndugu yangu alitafutiwa na hawaishi vizuri na mke wake ambaye mama alimtafutia.

Mimi nikajitafutia bibi na tunaishi naye vizuri kutoka 1990, wakati tulirudi nyumbani tena 1992 tukiwa na first born akatufukuza tena. In fact nililala kwa grandmother na bibi yangu na huyo mtoto. Mimi ndio sijawahi mtafuta tena, nilimalizana na hiyo story lakini bibi yangu ndio humtafuta.

Sijamuekea makosa yeyote nivile nataka aone ndugu yangu wanakosana na wake saa zote na wangu tunaishi na hatujawahi kosana. He narrated.

Listen to the audio below.

‘I cry A lot!,’ Annitah Raey Reveals 5 Things You Never Know About Her (VIDEO)

 

‘My biggest fear is that I might not find a man to love me plus my kids,’ cries Annita Raey

Radio Jambo host Annitah Raey is a woman who speaks a truth. If you don’t like it, eff you, take the next bus to hades and don’t come back.

Seriously though, Annitah Raey is a straight shooter, even on matters that expose her vulnerability, she will still say what she actually means.

In an intimate note posted on her social media, Annitah tackles the society that condemns single mothers.

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This post was inspired by insensitive humans who spew out garbage about single mums.

“I actually thought I was done writing notes, but someone touched a button and I decided to talk about it, and words are the best way to express myself,” Annitah started out the post.

“I AM A SINGLE MUM OF TWO, MY BIGGEST FEAR IS THAT I MIGHT NOT FIND A MAN TO LOVE ME PLUS MY KIDS ON BOARD, AM SO SCARED THAT I WILL NOT FIND LOVE, I WILL NOT FIND ACCEPTANCE I WILL NOT BE ACCEPTED BY SOCIETY. I SEE HOW SOCIETY JUDGES JUDGES ME, LOOKS AT ME, THINKS AM A LOOSE WOMAN, THAT I COULD NOT KEEP A MAN. SHE CAN NOT EVEN SUSTAIN A MARRIAGE, SHE CAN NOT SETTLE DOWN, I AM A BAD EXAMPLE TO THEIR KIDS.”

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Annitah Raey continued, “I have been shamed in family occasions, I have been excluded from events where spouses are required, friends and family have looked at me as a threat to their men.

I have been told countless times, please stop talking to my husband, please stop hugging my boyfriend.

All fingers point at me with so much ease, they feel no guilt or remorse blaming me for being a single mum, they don’t feel the need to ask what happen they already know.”

Adding, “The woman often is guilty coz she should build her home, keep her home and protect her family, right??

A woman should be the glue that keeps them together. That woman no matter what happens, she is expected to stay. Expected to be patient. Expected to show love, to be submissive, to be the best wife ever, a perfect mother.

This woman is expected to stay no matter what happens, even if it kills her then she will have died for a good cause.”

In conclusion Anittah said, “Marriage is a good cause, saving face in society is a good cause, living a fake life for publicity purposes is a good cause. Its a good cause to die for… But please forgive me for not willing to die for the cause. I am not willing to be a martyr.”