In a nutshell this was the main topical subject on 'Sema na Raey' show by mid-morning host, Annitah Raey.
A number of men were brave enough to open up on the issue but it was one man's confession which caught everyone's attention when he claimed that he is yet to talk to his dear mom since 1992, after she repeatedly tried to choose a partner for him.
According to the 49-year-old guy, her mom had made it her mission to choose partners for her sons after successfully doing so for his two other sons.
Read his story below.
Nina miaka 49 na mimi wakati nilioa nilienda nyumbani na bibi yangu na mamangu aliniambia kuwa huyo sio bibi wa kuoa. Sasa aliposema ivo nilitoka na mke wangu na nikarudi Nairobi. He said.Mamangu ni wale wamama wa kusema lazima wakutafutie bibi na sasa ndugu yangu alitafutiwa na hawaishi vizuri na mke wake ambaye mama alimtafutia.
Mimi nikajitafutia bibi na tunaishi naye vizuri kutoka 1990, wakati tulirudi nyumbani tena 1992 tukiwa na first born akatufukuza tena. In fact nililala kwa grandmother na bibi yangu na huyo mtoto. Mimi ndio sijawahi mtafuta tena, nilimalizana na hiyo story lakini bibi yangu ndio humtafuta.
Sijamuekea makosa yeyote nivile nataka aone ndugu yangu wanakosana na wake saa zote na wangu tunaishi na hatujawahi kosana. He narrated.
Listen to the audio below.
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