According to Patrick, a carpenter, he got into a relationship with Ruth back in 2009 after which the two settled down together without the 29-year-old mother of one disclosing her HIV status to her husband. He only learnt of her status after he jokingly insisted she get tested since "She wasn't growing big even if I bought her all the healthy foods I could think of."
According to Patrick, his wife found out she was HIV positive but he, on the other hand, was negative. The two were dying to have children which they did after getting the thumbs up from their doctor. He unfortunately later got infected.
"After she realized that I was also infected, that is when her attitude towards me changed and she became disrespectful to the extent of cheating on me." He said.
"I forgave her the first time even after I caught her pants down with her lover, but afterwards, I realized she was acting weird and I came to a conclusion that she was back with the same guy and that's when things went south after I confronted her. " said a distraught Patrick insisting that he still wanted to reconcile and get back together with his wife.
Ruth confirmed she cheated on him and they solved it all but blamed her husband for relying on hearsay, rather than digging for evidence.
Question is, would you take back a cheating spouse who infected you with HIV?.
We sought some views from members of the public and here's what they had to say.
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